Try Discernment - By Millie Fry
- Lisa
- Apr 10
- 3 min read
As we approached the end of Lent, we finished our ‘Try’ sermon series, based on Jesus’ sermon on the mount. The last sermon was titled “Try Discernment” – how do we know if we are walking the right path in our life with Jesus?
Discernment dictionary definition = to recognise, the ability to judge well
There are many decisions that require discernment – what job to apply for, which
church to go to, which people to let influence your life, or what God is asking you to
do. Most people could tell you how to live a good life, how to be kind, have fun and
work hard. Charles Spurgeon, a 19th century pastor and preacher, took it further by
saying "Discernment is not knowing the difference between right and wrong. It is
knowing the difference between right and almost right"
If we want to find ourselves on the right path we need to be able to tell the difference
between right and almost right. ‘Good’ people live in all sorts of different ways, but
we want to live the way of Jesus. So how do we discern if we are walking the right
path?
Focus on Jesus
I was reminded of this song, of which the lyrics are on the wall in our hallway at
home:
“Turn your eyes upon Jesus, look full in his wonderful face, and the things of earth
will grow strangely dim, in the light of his glory and grace”
The culture and temptations of the world around us are worth nothing compared to
Jesus. He is our treasure in heaven. As the song suggests, the pressures and
temptations of the world are muted, dimmed when our eyes are fixed on Jesus, and
we follow his example and teachings.
Know the Scriptures
We need to know God’s word so we can discern and recognise what God is saying
to us. A good knowledge of Scripture allows us to recognise distortions of the truth.
When Jesus was tempted by Satan in the wilderness, Jesus was not swayed or
convinced, but he could reply with truth straight out of the Old Testament scriptures.
Knowing God’s word is a weapon against distraction, temptation, and the lies the
enemy tells about who we are and who God is.
Look out for Fruit
What do I mean by fruit? The Fruits of the Spirit are love, joy, peace, patience,
kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. We can be self-
reflective, see where we are lacking and see ourselves grow in these things with
God’s help. Fruit is what grows in us, like our character, seen through our words,
actions, how we use our time and money, how we love, how we welcome and serve,
how we stand up for those who face injustice and how we provide for those in need.
Jesus warned against seeming “religious” and good on the outside but lacking in the
fruits of the Spirit in your life.
As we reflect on Easter we are also reminded of the depths of Jesus’ grace!
There is no guilt or shame in Jesus, only repentance and forgiveness. We all fall
short and make mistakes, and thankfully God is still in control even when we get it
wrong. You will find yourself on the wrong path at times, I certainly do, but we can
always change direction back towards Jesus, no matter how many times we’ve got it
wrong.
Everything we have learnt this lent is linked together, which I guess is obvious as
Jesus preached on it all in one sermon! All of the “Trys” we have looked at are part of
the bigger picture of us knowing God, living in obedience and showing Jesus to the
world around us.
Try praying. Try fasting. Try simplicity. Try trust and gratitude. Try generosity.
Seek Jesus. Know the scriptures. Look for the good fruit in your life.




